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Pvt_Moose



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how many times a week/month for long time couples?....  Reply with quote  

ive been with my lady for over a year n half now. still i pretty much want it all the time. but i would have no arguments if it was once per meeting if we were to see each other 4-5 times a week. we see each other about 4-7 times a week.

sex now tho is becoming a big issue as far as arguments go. apparently my libido is higher than average in her mind. and she rejects sex like its a chore. if it was up to her one time a week is plenty.... i currently get it about 1-3 times a week. usually not 3 tho.


the thing is too i do all sorts of little things to enhance or sustain a great relationship. and have been doing these things the whole time consistently. from hiding notes here n there, flowers once a month, do all the actual chores right away, going out to dinner n date a couple times a week... i do a lot. so when i turn around and ask for sex i expect it but its not there....

am i wrong?? is the amount im getting normal?....
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tom inhaler
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yo dawg, i think she's cheating on you
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mmm, no i dont think so. actually tho we have delt with that before, during a "break up" stage.. but im like 99% sure its not the case at this point....
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Difinately either cheating, or just doesn't find you attractive.
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I don't think it's the amount you should be worried about here.
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Estevan



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you'd be surprised at what woman can do
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Sage Francis
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I think it's lame that you have an expectation for sex as frequently as you want it. Do those things because you love her. Not because you get sex in return. If it's at the point where she has to repeatedly reject your requests for sex, you are officially a nuisance. If it's not something she wants to do that frequently you shouldn't be taking it personally.
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just for the sake of details im 25 and shes 28. im white with an asian fetish and shes a japanse fob with a white fetish. sex is great when we have it...

again cheating i really doubt.
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Sage Francis wrote:
I think it's lame that you have an expectation for sex as frequently as you want it. Do those things because you love her. Not because you get sex in return. If it's at the point where she has to repeatedly reject your requests for sex, you are officially a nuisance. If it's not something she wants to do that frequently you shouldn't be taking it personally.


i do the things i do out of love. i just expect what i want in return cuz i see it as her side of putting into the relationship. its like matching effort in my eyes...

no?...
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b. dolan
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she's cheating dude. she has an other guy's penis fetish.
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Sage Francis
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nah. Not so much.
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ahh.. im playing. sage is right. i was just grossed out by your fetish talk and general attitude and wanted to give you antagonistic advice.

she's probably not cheating, you're probably just a shmuck
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Pvt_Moose



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b. dolan wrote:
she's cheating dude. she has an other guy's penis fetish.


ok well outside of the cheating theroy i was asking if my requests are too much.

thx
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Yeah. I'm in dolan's boat, and I'm guessing inhaler is too.

Pathetic isn't a good look.
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tom inhaler
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Dan Shay wrote:
Yeah. I'm in dolan's boat, and I'm guessing inhaler is too.

Pathetic isn't a good look.


yes.
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